Mrs. Lubchansky

So I have had some time to reflect, attempt to catch up on all the sleep that I missed out on this past summer and understand this new feeling of making a home with Ben. Yes we have lived together, pretty much since we met and shared a motel strip, him right next door to me, with our shared kitchen, living space and of course our desk (with a line of tape to divide it so my stuff wouldn’t intrude on his.
Nothing prepared me for this… the feeling that we are indeed one, that our lives are completely entwined and that we have promised ourselves to one another until the end of time. We didn’t include "til death do us part" in our ceremony, because we want to travel together beyond the plane of this existence. It is an amazing journey and it is different when you are married despite living together… so pooh on all those people out there who say, "If you live together before marriage, then marriage won’t be a big deal" I have to say I think that those people just didn’t understand what marriage was or is.
Onto the name thing though. I have been hesitant to go by Kate Lubchansky… it is just so weird. It makes me feel like I am abandoning my family, like they will no longer see me as one of them. I am the only one from our immediate family that is supposed to abandon the last name… I have a really, cool and great family and don’t want to not be a part of it. It is like they are kicking me out, and what kinda sucks more (not that I am not happy about the addition) is that there is a new girl Zomboracz coming in right behind me! I did receive the marriage license official copies in the mail yesterday, so we filled out the forms right! Good work Tanya! I can go and change my name at any time, well when I am not working, so I am going to do it legally but may refer to myself with my new first and middle name… so for the time being I am still going by Kate Zomboracz, it is just weird still to do otherwise.

Reclaiming our Crafts

So, many of you have heard of this womans weekend that I am planning. Initially it started out as a plot (an evil one) to get my old college roomates to actually drag their asses down to Urbana before I leave this place. The majority of them missed my kick ass home in New Jersey and I thought I needed someway to actually get them down here to Illinois and seeing as it is closer than across the country it is actually feasable for them to make it. Anyway... as my obsessive compulsiveness kicks in, I needed to organize, I didn't want to make a big deal for everyone to travel down here and then not have anything to do. So I have planned a weekend for women to get in touch with thier feminine side.

Alright, not really -- the Mary Kay party isn't necessarily my form of feminism, but knitting, quilting and craftiness is. I read, perhaps in the stitch and bitch book something that really stuck with me. During the feminist movement, woman rejected the familiar to find equality... we know this side... but now as women, the crafts and trades that were perfomed by women are being lost and in this next wave of feminism there are now those of us who are looking to preserve those arts. I don't care if a machine or for that matter a child in India can make clothing faster than me, the fact that I can knit, crochet and sew all matter. I am a self supporting woman and ready to reclaim more of our female crafts...
Back to the point, my woman's weekend has turned into an event, full with a fun brochure and all: Reclaiming Our Crafts. I have created some workshops, which aren't really old school crafts (that will be next year) but more, utilizing the talented woman around me. Look for the brochure in the mail soon. I am still waiting for a couple confirmations, but hopefully all is a go. Next year I think I will do this again on the farm, quilting, knitting and some surprise with be featured... so be prepared for Reclaiming Our Crafts 2006.

Hope you are excited!
Kate

Workshopping

So here I sit, not at my home, but at my uncle's because I am "traveling" kind of on a business trip. This is as about as professional sounding that my job will ever sound... well perhaps second to the exciting and prestigious business card. I have been attending a workshop on this very cool prairie curriculum. The women working on it are fabulous and while I don't really know if I am learning anything new, as we are their test dummies, it is fun to be with a bunch of creative EE'ers, (for those not in the know that would be Environmental Educaters...duh). So anyway it is refreshing to be in the world beyond mine, to know that there are creative people out there attempting to do inivative things. It is just nice. For those out there who have an obsession with developing programs and curriculum this is of very high caliber. I am continually impressed with the more I learn of it and hope that I am able in my life to offer such an amazing thing to EE. I will integrate EE and agriculture and successful help people connect with their food... it will happen!

Wow, I sound a little cultish. I need to blog more.

I think that I will publish this and do another.

Kate

Crazy Quilters

So, the stitch and bitch group has been emerged in quilting projects. It all started out innocently enough… the sweet Rachel Peinhart Dawsey made an amazing baby quilt for her friend and since Francine is prego we thought it would be great to make a baby quilt for Joules (her unborn daughter). Well if you are cutting just one quilt you might as well cut a bazillion. I am an obsessive crafting person and when I get things in my head, they just don’t leave, I dream up patterns, visits to the fabric store… it goes on. For those of you who don’t know, Ben told me when I started knitting baby things that once I had 3 years worth of clothing made for our children we would start having kids. So I figured I would make a quilt for my first child… it went quickly I soon found the most efficient way to sew squares and voila it was pieced. I found the double bed quilt I had cut 3 years ago and voila it was pieced! It continues
I currently have 2 quilts ready for hand quilting another almost completely pieced and yet another ready for cutting. When will it stop… I do not know. Soon I will have my garden to occupy my time, but till then- Quilting it will be.
Everything else is going great!

Voting

Ben and I voted this morning. I do have to comment on the ease of voting absentee. I don’t know if it is always that easy, but I am going to be out of my home county on all major elections to come! It was fun, and cool because there are some issues in Urbana that were voted on and it is nice to be an informed community member. I am hoping everyday that Bush is not re-elected but am scared that he will be.

We leave for Seattle on Friday; Ben is trying to get his poster done. Always the last minute man he is. Lots to get done before we can leave for the week. Ben just ordered chickens that we will get the day before Thanksgiving… a whole new set of layers! I love those little chicks. They are just so cute and Ben’s family will be here when they arrive and get to enjoy them as cuddly babies.

Still gray here in Urbana. I don’t know when the rain will end.

Hope all is well in the rest of the world.

Kate

Life

So I have passed this time in my life that I only have another year of being Kate Zomboracz... the days are ticking down to the day when another Mrs. Lubchansky is going to be brought about. I never thought that I would change my name, but the tradition is cool and the best last name ever will be come my middle so I can finally ditch that Marie middle name that is all too common. Thus has brought about the title of my blog, inspired by my friend Natalie whose blog has brought much happiness to my life. I hope that my blog will be enjoyed by all that I love especially in this year that I am about to engage in that is set to be the biggest and most exciting year of my life. Not only because of the marriage thing... stay tuned.